'Conflict of Parents and Teens\r'

'The most common issue in our reality today is the conflict between p arnts and teenagers. However, it is more than sightly conflict. What was once a sort of a â€Å"B.F.F.” family is now sour and bitter; full of arguments and sometimes fights! The arguing becomes an everyday thing and the p arnt nor is the peasant able to prevent it. It becomes natural to both. With that in mind, yes it is conflict, merely it’s not forever; just temporary.\r\n pick out yourself a question about the situation… why are the teenage years more toilsome with parents? Well, simply because the teenage years are when teens render identity and parents majority come in-between it. In the present time, 13 years old is when everything goes descending(prenominal) for the relationship. We start becoming more rebellious, the â€Å"back-talking” starts, conflict problems with former(a) teens, wanting to be self-directed and unfortunately its sayonara to the video games and hell o to the parties! All of this at except age 13. Can you imagine what the next 5 years will be?\r\nWhen a individual reaches his or her physical maturity, there is also a change in your mental state as well as physical. We mature much in the beginning now days. There is no longer a match between our demand for independence, and our ability to really be independent! Our teenage bodies and minds are belly laugh â€Å"I am ready to be independent! I want to make my own decisions! I want to be my own boss!” Your parents and ball club are screaming back at you, â€Å"You are not ready to be independent nonetheless! You have not learned what you need to hold out to that degree! You cannot support yourself! You do not yet fully understand the dangers in this world! You are not grown!” . . . . And in the end they are right. We struggle with this unnatural situation.\r\nReference\r\nhttp://www.livestrong.com/article/7895-conflict-between-parents-teenagers-/\r\n'